Matthew 13:15 For this people's heart is waxed gross, and their ears are dull of hearing, and their eyes they have closed; lest at any time they should see with their eyes, and hear with their ears, and should understand with their heart, and should be converted, and I should heal them. 

You cannot have a change in outcomes except you first experience change personally and internally. You cannot be doing things the same way, over and over and the outcome will be different. Most people work contrary to the outcome they desire. Change start within you first. Your progress is first internal before it becomes visible. 

You cannot change what you dont know to be the problem. Unless you see the need for a change, you cannot embrace the needed change. The Jews desire the coming Messiah, but they are not open to embrace the new. Jesus clearly told them, you cannot pour new wine into the old wineskin, the two will be wasted. 

You must be willing to embrace the newness of life, that's where it starts. A change in thinking, perspective, operation and willingness to walk the talk. You must know that change is not an easy thing, it will stretch you, challenge your comfort zone. The question is, are you willing to embrace the new? 

Luke 5:37 And no man putteth new wine into old bottles; else the new wine will burst the bottles, and be spilled, and the bottles shall perish.