Psalms 101:5 Whoever secretly slanders his neighbor, him I will destroy; The one who has a haughty look and a proud heart, him I will not endure.

Sometimes we don't realize how the enemy try to influence our thoughts about others. The enemy is always looking for an opportunity to provoke you, trying to make you see the enemy in men. This happens when a believer is defile as a result of past experiences, circumstances, association etc. 

Titus 1:15 (TPT) It’s true that all is pure to those who have pure hearts, but to the corrupt unbelievers nothing is pure. Their minds and consciences are defiled. 16 They claim to know God, but by their actions they deny him.

How much is your flesh influencing you? Are you being instructed through the word or by your past and experiences? Never promote dreams and visions above God's word, that terrain can be influenced by demons. Let the word guide you in actions and your relationship with others.

Remember, to the pure, all things are pure, and to those who are defile, everything is defile. You won't see things the way they are, but the way you are. A thief will think and likely see other men as thief, the innocent will just walked past without negative emotion. This is the reason we need to renew our mind through God's word. 

Olanrewaju Niyi