Ephesians 5:21 Submitting to one another in the fear of God.

You can have a healthy relationship with others, all that is require of you is to know who you are, whose you are and what you have. The reason many people have issues in relationships is because of lack of understanding, most importantly, of who they are. You cannot have a healthy relationship where you are trying to use your relationship as tool for your personal definition.

Relationship is actually for two whole people, spiritually, mentally and bodily. There are many people who are trying to find meaningful living through relationships. Others are trying to find completeness in it, while others are trying to find love. All of these things can only be found in Christ Jesus first.

Until your strength and satisfaction in life is found in Christ, you are an endanger being in any relationship. Great relationship is based on two people loving God individually, and loving themselves. True love is unconditional, it is pure and full of wisdom. You cannot buy it with money, neither can you use sex to acquire it.

Ephesians 3:17 That Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, 18 may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height- 19 to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.