Ephesians 5:21 Submitting to one another in the fear of God.

The Spirit of the LORD impressed this word in my heart: What produces great relationship is not prayer, it is intimacy. Intimacy is a proof of your love, it is not about sex, it is about love flowing from a regenerated heart.

Romans 5:5 And this hope is not a disappointing fantasy, because we can now experience the endless love of God cascading into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who lives in us!

Many people are in relationship because of the fantasies, but it only leads to heart aches. To have a glorious relationship, you must base your reality on the word of God, great relationship is produced by efforts of two people.

READ 1Corinthians 13:4

Meditate on this verses and look out for what is missing in your life and relationship, ask the Lord through His Spirit within you to help you express it. Then start practicing those things and you will be amazed at the outcome in a short while. Your giving in your relationship should never be based on what you are getting, let love lead you.

Sex is not a proof of love, it is a product of love. If you give sex outside of marriage, you are indirectly hurting your soul. Your body is God's temple, and only in marriage is your body supposed to be given sexually. You cannot tie down a man through sex, don't fall for that man asking for sex, you will have regrets of that action later.